Today somebody commented that my white skirt is sexy. She said if I want to be sexy I should wear a shorter skirt.

I was totally offended. According to dictionary.com; 'sexy' means concerned predominantly or excessively with sex or radiating sexuality.

Now...let me see; I don't think when I put my skirt on this morning I have any of the above notions in my mind; neither do I have any intention to radiate sexuality. My only thought was to make sure I look proper, neat and presentable as I would be meeting parents today. This particular skirt is one of my favourite and I have been wearing it for the past years without anybody making any comments.

If I think of sexy....I would think of the lady herself....she walks with her hips swaying. When she talks, she puts on that 'manja' tone that sounds sexy. When confronting a male; looks more like flirting to me. Oh yes...not to forget how she projects her frontal to show her assets.

About 17 years ago in my first school, a pair of students were caught touching each other. The girl wore a tudung that reaches way down. That was the best cover for the boy to put his hand underneath it. Now...does covering yourself from head to toe makes a difference tobeing sexy?


I do sound bitchy and childish. But I was pretty mad this morning over the unnecessary remark.
But as she commented, my skirt is not short enough to be labelled as sexy but it is still sexy....

Anyway....I mustn't be wasting my energy being frustrated by such narrow minded people who can't see the log in their own eyes but can laser in at the splinter in others. She will be judged many times more for judging others. Is she more righteous than me? Am I such a terrible sinner just because of a skirt that touches the knee?

Tsk tsk tsk....I am being a little too touchy and emo. Ok....just a thought of the narrow mindedness around us.

Comments (4)

On July 10, 2010 at 5:26 AM , PreciousPearl said...

Aunty SM - u don't like being sexy meh? :p I think she meant it as a compliment
u know this makes u very easy to tease tee hee hee lol

 
On July 10, 2010 at 1:07 PM , SM Ting said...

it all depands on how u tell me that i m sexy.....

 
On July 10, 2010 at 10:14 PM , AJ7 said...

You can be sexy... you can show it... sometimes people just jealous they cannot be sexy... LOL! I can understand how you feel. If I wear something longer, then I have people telling me I look real nice, tutup aurat... to which I'd say "My foot!" LOL! I can wear anything I choose... some people just can't... the reason they kaypoh about others' clothing is because they cannot. Should kesian them..... he! he!

 
On July 12, 2010 at 1:08 AM , PreciousPearl said...

hello sexy.........