Today somebody commented that my white skirt is sexy. She said if I want to be sexy I should wear a shorter skirt.
I was totally offended. According to dictionary.com; 'sexy' means concerned predominantly or excessively with sex or radiating sexuality.
Now...let me see; I don't think when I put my skirt on this morning I have any of the above notions in my mind; neither do I have any intention to radiate sexuality. My only thought was to make sure I look proper, neat and presentable as I would be meeting parents today. This particular skirt is one of my favourite and I have been wearing it for the past years without anybody making any comments.
If I think of sexy....I would think of the lady herself....she walks with her hips swaying. When she talks, she puts on that 'manja' tone that sounds sexy. When confronting a male; looks more like flirting to me. Oh yes...not to forget how she projects her frontal to show her assets.
About 17 years ago in my first school, a pair of students were caught touching each other. The girl wore a tudung that reaches way down. That was the best cover for the boy to put his hand underneath it. Now...does covering yourself from head to toe makes a difference tobeing sexy?
I do sound bitchy and childish. But I was pretty mad this morning over the unnecessary remark.
But as she commented, my skirt is not short enough to be labelled as sexy but it is still sexy....
Anyway....I mustn't be wasting my energy being frustrated by such narrow minded people who can't see the log in their own eyes but can laser in at the splinter in others. She will be judged many times more for judging others. Is she more righteous than me? Am I such a terrible sinner just because of a skirt that touches the knee?
Tsk tsk tsk....I am being a little too touchy and emo. Ok....just a thought of the narrow mindedness around us.